COSMIC

Nowadays, I've read a few COSMIC, which is a Buddhism magazine but it is mainly on guidelines in our daily lives...

Long time ago, my frens were asking me to have a look at this COSMIC, but i just listened and forgotten about it

But now, I was being attracted to this magazine!! =.=

One of them that really guides me is that the COSMIC about WHAT IS LOVE...It can be love in a relationship, between families and frens.. But in this topic, it is mainly talking about being in a relationship

"To LIVE IN LOVE is to LIVE IN LIFE, and to LIVE IN LIFE is to LIVE IN LOVE"
(Leo Buscaglia,American professor and author)
It's true!! Once there is love among humans in lives, we would have the compassionate to live in peace but not to fall into immoral activities which our societies had now!!

When getting into a relationship, we will always think of "he completes me" or "he finishes off my sentence" or even "he is my other half"...But, "nobody completes ourselves except ourselves"!!

LOVE
can be Sweet
can be Happy
can be Fulfilling
can be Comfortable
but
can be Sour
can be Sad
can be Torture
can be Heart Broken

Whatever feelings it could be, we are totally responsible for our own Happiness and Sorrows...Even if it's heart broken, we must use our wounds as growth and not let the wounds use us..Our wounds act like shadows which hide in the darkness in our heart...Wound, is a good guidance and experience for all of us... That's what I've learned from COSMIC =)

Some take relationships as an experience, some as accompaniment while some as satisfactions...COSMIC highlighted that "Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but looking together in the same direction"... It's to set a target and to accomplish it together in the coming future...That's the whole process for bringing up a successful relationship...

That' some of my opinions stated above based on COSMIC's guidelines...

Q and A section (answered by some readers)

In your opinion, what is a healthy relationship???

-One stated that "It is a relationship where one continue exploring, learning and maturing in taking one's life"

-Another one said that "A healthy relationship is one which allows us to stay true to who we are. It is a relationship which allows us to voice out and share our opinions, and allows both persons to have heart-to-heart dialogues on anything"

Anyway, one must be happy with one's decision and it's never too much to ask the best for ourselves!!

So, what does love meant to you???